Maybe I can use an apostrophe on this gawd-forsaken site? Let's try! I am independent, to a fault. It's a protective measure probably. In spite of myself, I love men. I refuse to believe there aren't still good men out there who can be respectful, charming, and playful. If this is you, send me a message. That being said, I can't always see all of my messages. Curses. I really need you to know that if we meet, and one of us is uninspired or disinterested, either one of us is welcome to decline further contact. How does that sound? Also, if you're married/attached and your wife/gf isn't aware of/in support of an open agreement - I certainly hope you find what you're looking for, but this situation just isn't for me.

Min Idealperson Ideal? I don't believe this exists. You can try to convince me otherwise though!